What Does Kudumbam Mean in Tamil?
The word குடும்பம் (kudumbam) in Tamil means “family.”
But in Tamil culture, kudumbam is not just a group of relatives—it is the heart of society, tradition, and identity.
Understanding the use and importance of kudumbam in Tamil gives every learner a window into values that are cherished and lived every single day.
The Structure and Types of Tamil Kudumbam
Joint and Nuclear Families
- Traditional Tamil families often live as joint families: several generations (grandparents, parents, children, uncles, aunts, cousins) under one roof.
- Nuclear families (parents and children) are common in modern cities.
Why does this matter?
The joint family (kudumbam) fosters sharing, support, and unity—shaping every aspect of a child’s values and world view.
Vocabulary: Immediate and Extended Family in Tamil
Relationship | Tamil | Pronunciation | English equivalent |
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Mother | அம்மா | Amma | Mother |
Father | அப்பா | Appa | Father |
Elder Brother | அண்ணா | Anna | Elder brother |
Younger Brother | தம்பி | Thambi | Younger brother |
Elder Sister | அக்கா | Akka | Elder sister |
Younger Sister | தங்கை | Thangai | Younger sister |
Grandmother | பாட்டி | Paatti | Grandmother |
Grandfather | தாத்தா | Thatha | Grandfather |
Uncle (paternal) | சித்தப்பா | Chittappa | Father’s younger brother |
Uncle (maternal) | மாமா | Mama | Mother’s brother |
Aunt (paternal) | அத்தை | Athai | Father’s sister |
Aunt (maternal) | மாமி | Mami | Mother’s sister |
Son | மகன் | Magan | Son |
Daughter | மகள் | Magal | Daughter |
Spouse | கணவன்/மனைவி | Kanavan/Manaivi | Husband/Wife |
Cousin Brother | அண்ணன் | Annan | Cousin (male) |
Why “Kudumbam in Tamil” Is More Than Just Family
Respect and hierarchy:
- Tamil children are taught to use respectful titles; not addressing elders properly is considered disrespectful.
- Major decisions are made collectively, often involving discussions with senior family members.mozhitamil+1
Support system:
- A kudumbam shares everything—from food to financial support, and even raising children together.
- During crises, it’s usually a family member who steps up first.
Culture in everyday life:
- Festivals, weddings, and family events are grand, collective affairs.
- Decisions, from children’s education to marriage, often involve the wider kudumbam.
Sample Conversations with “Kudumbam in Tamil”
1. Introducing Your Family
- Tamil: இது எங்களோட குடும்பம்.
- Tanglish: Idhu engaloda kudumbam.
- English: This is our family.
2. Asking about Family
- Tamil: உங்கள் குடும்பத்தில் யார் யார் இருக்காங்க?
- Tanglish: Ungal kudumbathula yaar yaar irukkaanga?
- English: Who are all there in your family?
3. Expressing Concern
- Tamil: குடும்பம் எப்படி இருக்குதுங்க?
- Tanglish: Kudumbam eppadi irukkudhu-nga?
- English: How is your family doing?
4. Sharing Good News
- Tamil: என் குடும்பத்தில் ஒரு சந்தோஷ செய்தி இருக்கு.
- Tanglish: En kudumbathula oru sandhosha seidhi irukku.
- English: There’s some good news in my family.
Cultural Highlights: Kudumbam in Tamil Festivals
- Pongal: Family gathers to thank nature and ancestors; everyone eats together.
- Weddings: Every role (from anna to paatti) is honored.
- Funerals: The extended kudumbam comes together for rituals.
Emotional connection:
Kudumbam in Tamil means never being alone—there is always a circle of care.



Fun Practice: How to Talk about Kudumbam in Tamil
English | Tamil | Tanglish |
---|---|---|
My family is big. | எங்களோட குடும்பம் பெரியது. | Engaloda kudumbam periyadhu. |
I love my family. | எனக்கு என் குடும்பம் ரொம்ப பிடிக்கும். | Enakku en kudumbam romba pidikkum. |
Who is your sister? | உங்க குடும்பத்துல யார் அக்கா? | Unga kudumbathula yaar akka? |
We live together. | நாங்க எல்லாம் சேர்ந்து இருக்கோம். | Naanga ellaam serndhu irukkom. |
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